let's make it a good one...

I wish you all a very Happy New Year, may all your wishes come true for 2009. Ill make sure that mine will....

are we human or are we dancers?

question of the day....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n6r4KT8-VX0

love me, thrill me, kiss me

that's the text on three rings. three wonderful rings from >>>bjorg<<<.

“For me jewellery is a very intimate thing which reflects our passions and
emotions. I believe we all need joy and some glitz in our lives, and l
feel very privileged to have the opportunity to make a difference to other
people by adding some sparkle to special occasions as well as those random
days in between!” -bjorg

I agree...that's probably why I just love her jewelleries. if I ought to be a jewellery designer, I would have made my things like hers. i mean..look at them...

back in rome

so the party on 25th wasn't that great. i felt old. my friends felt old, and it wasn't as fun as it use to be. I think the fact that we felt old, is because we are, older.

The girls at the club were dressed in...high heels, pantyhouse, a long tank top and a belt-that's it. I just had to comment on one girl that looked dreadful, and I told her that she probably had left her pants in the bathroom. She just looked at me and didn't know how to respond. I didn't wait because maybe she would put the drink in her hand over my head.

Now I'm back in Rome wondering what new years will bring.

Party of the year

that´s today, the party of the year. when swede´s get together get wasted and have fun!
so...i´m at my brother´s place waiting for my friend to stop by so that we can begin. this night, is better than new years. Everybody´s out, and everybody´s happy and ready to drink and dance.

what a night, well at least that´s what I have i mind. let´s just hope it will be as nice as the other years, maybe better, who knows?

to all of you from me

My dearest ones, i don´t believe i will enjoy christmas until i have my own children. Im sorry. However I would like to tell you all, that the best xmas gift is to wake up an know that i have you in my life, my dear friends and family. And M you are so right, my home is where my heart is. It´s really true. I was present yesterday with my body, but my heart was somewhere else.

MERRY XMAS!

Hope that you haven´t been naughty but nice, so that santa gives you a gift and not the rice! ;)

do you like it? it was my xmas rime that I came up with at dinner today.

here´s my xmas gift from santa

hrm...not really but almost?

xmas around the corner

sitting at my parents home, alone. you know what that means? I put on music, very loud. I mean very, very loud. the first cd that poped out was xmas carols remix. All the xmas carols I use to listen to when i was young. So since I was alone, i just had to do the dances too. haha what a sight i must have been to my neighbours, let´s just hope they didn´t see me.
anyway I was actually listening to the text and there´s >>>this one carol<<< singing about frogs being out of ears and tails? hrm...I mean what does that has to do with xmas? a frog? we´re not chinese, we´re swedish. is it because we want our prince to pop out of the frog or what? these swedes they crack me up sometimes, and also it makes me feel more calm, cause it explains that it´s not only me being crazy it´s just my origin-Swede´s are crazy!

down memory lane

I was there...with all of the boys, what a memory, what a party afterwards. OMG!
sweet memories. I was lucky, had the best seat at every game(not my video). funny thing is that they caught me so many times on the jumbotrone so in the intermission people came to ask for my autograf. Mine? It was quite embarrassing with the rest of the Swedish crew around. they found it funny and told me to get paid for every picture, and say yes to making the calander. Maybe I should´ve, then I´d been able to make a penny. or two. I didn´t. Oh my God, i can be so damn blonde sometimes. ;)

type a thing...

by now you know im in Sweden, and that Im Swedish, I think has been kinda hard to miss?! So im back where my roots are. I can go out without being stared at, that is I don´t feel like a banana in a strawberry field, but looking around, hearing what people are talking about, I do feel like a blueberry lost in a dessert. Where do I belong??? I do wonder.
We´ve talked about this in school, I´ve been dealing with it, my friends at school has been too, it´s a problem for us "children of the world" that has a nationality but been moving around in different cultures. we feel lost in translation so to say. like for instance, it´s bad when my brother asks me to speak English instead of Swedish, because what I´m saying doesn´t make sense. (Even if it would, I doubt that it would, if you know what I mean?)

it´s hard, you know, when it comes more natural for me to speak italian to my parents, when I turn to my niece and ask her something in English, and then to my man and speak Swedish. I mean where is the sense in that? If there is any. At all. I do wonder Will I ever feel at home at home, somewhere? I do know of a place...but it is getting small, way too small for two...

brrr it´s cold in here...

Same old same old, and it´s soooo sweet. when you meet your old friends that you haven´t seen in what seems for ever, and yet it´s like you met yesterday. That´s real friends, my friends!
We had the best night ever, me and J. As back in the days. well, almost, only that we are not single and 20 anymore, and we were sober.
We went to PUSH "the" club in Gothenburg, where my friend is club director (nice worked S;) and we didn´t have to stand in line, nor pay. Thanks!
It is cold here, even though it´s no snow. So we have to dance to keep us warm...

models in sweden

great had just written a looooong blog. for once. pressed publish, and woooosh, it dissappears. wonderful.

anyway what I had written was that im in sweden. everytime I come here, it feels like im walking into the future. and people are so beautiful, hot even. both men and women. they dress well and their hair. mamma mia! they all, haha well many, look like models.

great

still in bed, with fever. tomorrow I'm gonna fly to Sweden, with a 3 hr layover in Amsterdam. I'm soooo excited. NOT. My body hurts, my head hurts, im cold, im hot, i cough, I can't breath, running nose. Today I have to pack. With dirty clothes. Told my mom, she said she'll clean them for me as long as I get home for xmas. How sweet. Moms are just great!

so here we go

yesterday nurse....today..patient. so now we're both sick in bed.
what about the million things we have to do?
we'll it might be destiny that we have to move back our transfer...

oh no

My baby is sick, so I've been the nurse. Treating him with much love. Hope that he gets better soon...

ass

my boss is an ass today. don't wanna work, but here i am. the last day and all. and then goodbyeeeee

i wish

I wish I could help my dear! oh how I wish I could help, or be there close to you now.
I'm complaining and here, look at you my sweet baby. Ti adoro principessa mia!!!

Angels of a Kind
by Jessica Stamps
Take my hand and lead me to your heart.
I want to feel your dreams that shine light in the dark.
Your smile caresses my soul and makes my life complete.
Your love has changed the way I feel; I am no longer me.
You have made me a follower in your angel parade.
You have given me wings to fly through each day.
I imagine us together for the rest of our lives.
We have so many memories and so many happy times.
To feel this way is something new.
I give my world, my life, and my heart to you.
I will never break a promise; I intend to keep all.
If you are ever in need I will not let you fall.
The truth of the matter is that I love you.
Forever and always my love will be true.



(sounds like Im in love but she is my best friend and I just love her)

scared? what?

Scared? what? me....no....YES fine, I admit, Im scared. Fuck.

//The only fear to fear is fear itself.//

Exactly, that's what it is.

life or something like it?

life in italy: you make more money working on the weekends in a shop than working 12 hrs per day in an office. Makes sense? no? Right. That's my reality. Then we have my friends that are working basically for free. I have one friend that is a lawyer that makes 400 euros a month. Incredibile. But she is happy that she is getting paid at all, because even if she has been studying and done all the exams to be a lawyer, the first 6 months they expect you to work for free. And live of what? Air? No I need to get away. Even if my man in a moment of weakness yesterday mentioned that maybe we should remain here, but it was only a whisper. God only knows where I'll be in two weeks time.

1 saint

today is a special day for us Swedes, it's santa lucia, our only saint. so here's from me to all of you;

these swedes eh

I just discovered this lady, Swedish, what else? ;)

check, check..hrm

Another day, other thoughts. Had to buy myself a magazine , since being alone with your thoughts sometimes can really drive you crazy.
Anyway with Elle you get this plastic xmas bag, and immedietaly I realized that I can personalize it! YEAY. Then I bought this black T-shirt from the store with the print on the front ”Who the fuck is Mich Jagger?” I really want one that says ”who the fuck am I?”


Products I woulnd't mind under my xmas tree;
Rock n rose by valentino, smells good and it´s beautiful!

Who doesn't want a Kiss me baby bag by www.zufialexander.com
Sony reflex digital 350 k from sony 799 euro

Stainway piano, the diamond of pianos. pricelessAll day all year from Sisley 235 euro
Sony Eriksson xperia x1 649,90 euro
Bottle of Cabernet Savignoun covered in 250 Swarovsi Crystals, Umberto Cesari 70 euro

Hm...I'm not really expecting these gifts, but you can always make a wish no?

Then I was thinking about all these cremes and treatments, they might work, but who has the patience and time to go through with it? Not me, that´s for sure. The time I might have. Not the patience. So when it´s time, Ill do botox. Im sorry.

I also found this Gucci tattoo heart, their new line for unicef, good concept, but I don't like the bag. Looks like the xmas decorations my mom put up when I was a kid. here go see for yourself. www.gucci.com/unicef

If you're bored check these sites out;
www.tokujin.com
the global warning book
www.piper.viktor-rolf.com
and this one if you don't happen to turn out famous and have the chance to get a mem0rial this company in spain writes one for you. Memorials for normal people, http://memorailia.es (from 300-3000 euros.)

last but not least if you want to find pictures from waaaay back in time http://images.google.com/hosted/life

a sign

was looking for a sign if I'm doing the right thing. Even though it's not at all the first time Im about to change my life by moving somewhere far away. Anyway, Im getting older, but what the heck, you only live once right!!! ;)
anyway I got my sign in the form of a sudden blackout in the store, and with the music playing...this song...




a good sign no???

caotic!!!

That's what my life is now. caotic. so little time until im moving, and yet nothing done. well...I still have a week to pack my whole life, send it to Sweden (the things Im not bringing to the States) sell my car (which is a problem since it has Swedish licence plates, but my dear man is a cliff and helps me with that) arrange for the payments, go to the embassy for the visa interview, find a place to stay in San Diego. Well...watch me, I'll make it!

//To resolve an eqvation you have to find all the roots.//

long distance...

Been there, done that. Did not like it. So why do I wanna go through it again? Or do I really?

Love on distance, is the sweet love, you only miss and never heal from, if not ended correctly, and it never is. Then years pass and you still think about that person as your big love. Which is wrong. Unfortunately love on distance, is not real love, can't be, you don't live with the person on an everyday basis. Ok you might know them, but not for real. Only the good sides, since you only get to see each other a couple of times a year. Not real, but fairytale like, I agree. Seems bigger than it really is. A thing on paper, letter emails, some phonecalls, but not the person in real, face-to-face with you.

No, I don't wanna do it again. I don't wanna loose this real love, to a fairytale. I want real life, real problems, and first of all real love.

If there is a will there is a way. That's just the way it is.

If there is a way, there is a will. think about it.

too much time

that's what I have on my hands during the day, too much time. Time that I get paid for- but time that I need for other things right now. Well c'est la vie. Nothing is ever exactly the way you want it.

I am very lucky to be born in the part of the world that I. That is in Sweden, where we have the highest percentage of equality amongst male and female. With the time in the shop I read. I finished a book called A thousand splendid suns, talking about two afghan women's life. It really put my life in a perspective, even my problems. Poor, poor women. Strange how people can miscommunicate a religion, like here islam. Ive read the koran, and the way the women are being treated has nothing to do with the koran, it has to do with fucked up men. Do they feel so low that they have to put the women under them like that? disgusting. you should read the book though, it really makes you want to help the war victims and especially the children.

today

enough with nightmares. I didn't sleep that well, neither did my man. god when will they stop i wonder?

however, since ive been working that much, even though i can't say that I really work at work, I am exhausted and yesterday we decided to go snowboarding today. so many many thanks to M that is covering my shift for me. mwah to you.

so guys tonight I will do some serious blogging. i have many subjects to air. so wait for that. hehe

now im going snowboardiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing. Hell yeah!

i put my head in it

waaaay too many of these yesterday. waaaaay too many. it feels literally like I put my whole head in the glass. yeah that's how it feels. why oh why will I never learn? mamma mia.

tired

i'm tired guys. tired of sitting in the f-ing store and watching movies. ok I get paid. that's good.

now im gonna take a nap. then im gonna watch Elizabeth, yes at work!

if you wanna know how I feel...watch this.

wow

can you believe it? i got internet at work. i wonder for how long though?? 

 

just put a smile on

that's what Ill have to do today, 260 euros less. 200 for the car yesterday (that by the way is still there with the police since I couldn't cough up another 200 euros right away) and 60 euros for drinks to forget my misery.

now of to work again. yes, I know i need the money. so just schhhhhhh and put a smile on. yeay.

arghhhhhhhhhhhhh

so what's the odds? 0-10000 i think and Where Im the 0.

In one day, one fucking day. the traffick police towed my car twice. that is two times in one day! Infuckingcredibile!

so now you know how italy works.actually the ONLY thing that do work is the traffick police... the rest...it takes time guys.

Thank god, thank god thank god that Im leaving, otherwise I think I might have done something terrible and gone to jail.

I love my man so much. He came to pick me up. TWICE today. He is my saviour!

addicted, yes i am

a whole day without internet, and I realize my addiction. 

Funny that I this morning I heard on the radio that in Sweden and Norway 84% use internet to do business and work where as in Italy only 4%. (?) 

I had absolutely nothing to do at work today so I wrote material for what I believe can be 1 week of blogging. I was so bored that I don´t even know if I can handle the other 7 days that are left. Is the money really worth my boredom? I know, I sound spoiled, I am too, but who wouldn´t be bored sitting in a shop, where no one enters during the day. Where you don´t have internet and all you can do is read and listen to the radio. I don´t know about you, but I get restless and start to think about everything I have to do at home. And that´s when I realized that I´m addicted. 

ok

this is all I have to say right now...

right back at ya....

lunch break

Lunch break 2 hrs, that's why I love working in Italy, and yet again, that's probably why things don't work as in the rest of the world here. People close down there shops, offices whatever it may be and they go home to their families. Nice. Romantic. But definately not effective.

Eating my chinese, my man is sleeping, I wish I could take a nap too, but time flies and I need to open up the shop soon again.

I read Swedish newspapers online from time to time, to update myself from something else than italian soccer in the pink gazzetta. I've always been facinated by the stock market and how the economy works, maybe because numbers will always remain a mistery for me. I've also been wondering what and how these people that work with the stock market can manage their jobs. It must be tough. Looking at their salaries, it must be really tough considering the high numbers?! However this article in DN today talks about this.
Maybe that's what I should do a career in? after all isn't it all about 1s and 0s?

what a day..

I'm so excited. Not. I'm on my way to work. Having my coffee and my cinnamonbun as I write. I'm going to the store without no computer nor internet connection. oh god, how will I survive. how will you survive without my very meaningful inputs?
hold on guys, Ill be back tonight! ;)

this is for you my sweet zarina, ti adoro!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcpWQC9prm0

something's going on!

Something is going on guys, im telling you. Don't know what it is, but it is something big. the second night I didn't sleep, and kept my man awake. poor guy. poor me.
what's happening in the world??? it feels like it's a time ticking bomb. we only have one world and it's very precious, we need to take care of it. not destroy it. think about it. act.

my bro

Wow, im soooo emotional right now. My dear dear friend gave me a call and stopped by. we used to live together, he was my brother. Still is in my heart. Then for some stupid reason we lost contact, and I haven't seen him since May. Until now. Incredibile. I'm so happy!
Take my advice; Don't ever loose contact with your dear friends, they are not that many and too precious not to have in your life.

Can you resist? Don't think so

I just realized we have these cool t-shirts in the store! You should pass by if you are in Rome and get one. They are freakin nice. T-shirts with the print that famous people worn in the 70s, made by www.wornby.co.uk


Check this print out-------->
If you stop by and get a T-shirt I'll give you a Swedish cookie too! Can you resist?

help!

Ok, I admit, it's my fault. I was late for work. My boss wasn't thrilled as you can imagine, and now he's arriving and I'm scared!!! I brought some Swedish ginger cookies and it's said that they have a calming effect on you so you turn nice. I think I'll give him the whole box.

It's first of advent today. In Sweden it's the beginning of Christmas. So tonight we are lighting the first candle and drink glogg, a special type of hot red wine. Yummieeeeee

I didn't sleep this night. Not because I was out partying. Because the world is changing and the weather, the storm, kept me awake. Then some other things kept me awake too. Things I can't explain. I'm gonna light the first candle now.

remember

To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

so it is

how I love my friends.talked to L before, she always makes me laugh, and she is just me. then we have M -you are fantastic, absofuckinglutely fantastic. she is now dragging me out to Hard Rock, exactly what I wanted with out knowing. and i'm sooo excited.

it's official

it's official guys, oh my god! wow...can't believe it, but it's a fact. I've lost it. Completely.

thank god I'm leaving, I'm slowly turning into one of them. the bitches. can't believe it. thank god I'm leaving. Help!

long or short?

that's what Im thinking about right now. Long or short? Well I just need a change, and girls usually change their hair first of all. so that's what Im thinking about doing. I know that I will regret it if I cut my long hair off, but it will grow right? Like I once read why do we cut our bangs only to wait for them to grow back out?

is it because we like to have something to look forward to? or is it because we are never satisfied?

well, i don't know, but I do know that in the end I probably won't cut them after all.

even though, these two beautiful ladies got away with it pretty well, don't you think?

oh heads up!

heads up for my new header! don't you just love it? I do...
thanks johan!

everything but..

that's what i'm doing right now, everything but doing what I should. but the last couple of days the weather has been shitty here in roma, and Ive been feeling shitty and I just need to be. even during the night I dream about running around and Im always late for things and I get no rest. so I had my nice little lunch today and a glass of wine. iiii i know...almost forbidden, but I do live in italy so it's ok. hehe

to feel a little bit better I think that I will go shopping today, or at least window-shopping. but I might buy some make-up or something. probably from benefit which is my new favourite. =)







I mean, who wouldn't want this little package--->
It can be yours for only 58 dollars




But always remember that...

stop staring

i was sitting in front of the computer and I felt really stared at. i looked to my right and there in a bowl a goldfish was staring at me. and we sat there staring at each other for like a minute. didn't know if my boss pulled a joke on me or what the heck he was thinking placing it there. I mean i feel like a goldfish sometimes...by people staring at me when passing by the shop, but c'mon poor fish!!!

have a piece of cake...

yes, have it, take the piece of cake that is sooo tempting. eat it, and while you eat it, know that the cake it came from is no longer whole, there is a piece missing now.

not your business

It´s non of your business how I live my life or what decisions I make. So why do you care? Why do you go around and talk about it? 

Is it because your life sucks? Because you´re single? Because you don´t have a lover. I know it´s frustrating not to get laid and you might get sexually frustrated, but take it out on yourself. Go to the gym or something. Just don´t talk about stuff that you don´t have anything to do with. You might hurt people. I´m sorry to say this, but especially here in Rome, girls and guys too for that matter, talk too much about their so called friends. INVECE FATEVI I CAZZI VOSTRI! Or if you like to talk bad about me, or my friends to others, you are not my friend, so next time I see you, don´t even pretend to be, cause there is a risk I might spit on your shoes or something. Just so you know. If you really want me to know something, tell it to my face. If you dare....

crisis?

did you know that it´s all numbers, that in reality what the amount says on your bank account statement, is not really real money. it´s just numbers. what do you think happens if everybody panics and actually wants to take out their money, that´s not really existing? the bank will fall, the economy will fall, states and persons will fall. so please, don´t panic guys. 

now everybody talks about the crisis, which is understandable. it affects us all, however, it will affect you even more if you freak out and start taking out all of your money from the bank, can you see that? also, if you have money in stocks, why would you want to take them out now, when you´ll only loose. why not wait until it´s all over and hopefully you will even make some money?

time to get somewhat serious here guys, it´s our future, please don´t f--k it up. 

I studied marketing and communication. I think that in almost everything you can apply some marketing method, or in everything some communication strategy. On a country for example. In politics.  I don´t know why, but I´ve always had an A in all my politics classes and I can´t really say that I like to talk about it nor discuss it. However, I think it would be necessary if like for example, big organizations, they call in an expert group that follow the company for a while, then conclude a rapport with all the pros and cons. wouldn´t it be fantastic if they could do that with countries? obviously ministers wouldn´t know the best for their country cause they´re so blinded by their party philosphy (and own success maybe?) and hence they´ll miss out on what they really need to do for their country. I know it would be impossible, but it´s needed, especially here in Italy! I know keep dreaming right....

delicious nipples!

yesterday i tasted these delicious nipples, and I almost had an orgasm. they were absofuckinglutely delicious. they were covered in strawberry-chocolate and when you took a small bite, this champagne cream came out, and then i was in heaven! they came from casetta di cioccolato, a tiny chocolate store i stumbled upon on my walk. if you are in rome, you should try them...trust me, you won´t regret it! ;) 

wonderful...just wonderful

alone with my thoughts, unable to do anything but thinking, reflecting or reading. currently listening to a swedish radiostation. sometimes i like to do that, even if I don't particularly feel swedish most of the time, sometimes it's nice to feel belonging to somewhere, and my passport, currently, is swedish.

i had the most amazing afternoon ever.
Im not a church-goer, sometimes i do go though, like today. it's my favourite church here in rome. funny thing, it's the favourite church of my man too, so yet another thing we have in common. destiny you might think. luck I say.

then we walked around on the streets of rome, holding hands, and I felt like the luckiest and happiest girl in the world.

feeling loved is a fantastic feeling, that love, that special love, from the one, that kind of love. that's how i felt.

everything was just so beautiful and perfect and totally wonderful. I don't know for how long it will last, I can only hope for a looooong looooong time.

i bet u didnt know...

that i made this video...well i was the assistant to the director. not bad eh...well the song is up to you to judge, but look at the picture, not to the right, but in the video. what do you say, do I have a chance as director?

ela weber-voglio solo amare (i only wanna love)

what will be will be

so that's probably why I still don't know what there will be, cause the future is not ours to see.
I'm still waiting patiently....

wanna know 2morrows hit?

working, it's sunday, I don't care Im soooo happy today.

was surfing around facebook, the new drug i think, anyhow, one of my ladies in Sweden posted a website, her brother's, and I since im so curious I just had to check it out, and guess what...this is tomorrows, if not already todays, new artist!
>>> www.mondji.com <<< it's sweeeeeeeeeet guys, you just need to check it out, it's an order not a suggestion!

sex attracts

i realized, i guess I already knew that sex attracts. so I found this other one that MTV has done. >>>>check it out<<<<. and use condom guys ;)



so i was dead all day yesterday couldn't move due to the heavy partying Thursday. I guess that's how you know that you're getting older. it's a problem guys.



got an invitation with the post Friday, from Bread and Butter in Barcelona. for you who are not familiar with the fashion world, it's one of the world's best and famous fashion fair and if you wanna be seen with your brand, that's the place to be at. The invitation is really cool, they sent me a passport, nice marketing! i just wish i could go to find some new brands, but I'll be in Cali by then.



tonight im heading over to my favourite place here in rome, salotto 42 and then dinner with my dear friends. Enjoy your night, it's Saturday!

video

Erik Hassle-hurtful

I have nothing to do with this video, or none I know. I just like it.
the fact that erik hassle looks like my dad at young age makes it a little funny i think.
that's all today folks since I went out yesterday, drank waaaaaaaaaaay too much and created some more drama. Im a dramaqueen when i drink. OMG today Im embarrassed.

Today's rose goes to my lovely, handsome and patient man for still loving me.
mwah!

bored

Im bored-can you tell??? it´s raining, not cats and dogs but i think elephants, and it´s not thunder and lightning it´s bombs. 

so what do I do, I write and search. 

gonna try this one above. hopefully it will be as fabulous as they promise. 

and if you have too much money and don´t know what to do with them either you

1) send them to me (if you ask Ill give you my account number)

2) or buy this ridiculously expensive creme della creme from Dior L´or de Vie

oh and one more thing. am writing on my lovely MacBook, but it seems like blogger.com hasn´t upgraded its system for us mac bloggers to be able to manage our blogs. SHAME ON YOU! we are currently in 2008, and it´s ridiculous that it doesn'´t work. 

dear loved friends

I just have to tell you, now when I have the chance. I love you, and Im so greatful to have you in my life. Without you things would be boring and black. You are all over the world, and sometimes I don't get to see you that often, or I haven't seen you for years, but you are still my dear friend. Sometimes I loose contact with you, due to different circumstances, but if you haven't hurt me too much, you are still in my thoughts and I smile when I think about you.

daily fortune

wow been having second thoughts lately like "maybe I'm too old to move across the atlantic, why move when I have almost everything here?" hm...that almost though, is very important. It's true, I have everything, except the job I want. so I read my daily fortune today and guess what, it had the answer to my doubts...


There is nothing permanent except change. If you long for stability and an unchanged situation, things can not move forward-with openness you and your love can grow and grow together.


Here is a Swedish artist that I like at the moment, dedicated to my man....yeah you're right, a little cheesy but hey-...it's ok sometimes.

do u use condom?

Have sex but use condom, haven´t we heard it before? Right. And do you use it? 

Hm...c´mon be honest! It´s a serious thing. Really, it is!

I got my elementary school education from Sweden. Did you know that Sweden in 1955 was the first country in the world to have obligatory sex education in school for 12 year olds? What about here in Italy? Wouldn´t think so...the Pope is in town and therefore everything that has to do with sex is hush hush, and that´s where the problem is. They are against abortions, but they don´t teach their kids about safe sex, and 70% of the population is unfaithful, meaning they sleep around.

Again I read an article in Damernas Värld 13/08 (yes it´s Swedish, the title means The ladies world=) and it said to sleep with less people, forget about one night stands, fuckbuddies, to have your sex debut when you´re older, then find the ideal sex partner with no sexual transmitted disease and then stay faithful to that person for the rest of your life. Right. Don´t think that you fit into that description, and if you do, I feel somewhat sorry for you. I don´t believe that you'll find the one unless you tried some "other fish in the sea." 

The article continues saying that there is no tabu in doing commercials or to write articles about how dangerous it is to smoke, eating fat food and to not exercise, so why is it tabu to talk about how dangerous sex can be? 

I say talking about sex should be normal, you don´t need to talk about positions, how many orgasms you had or how many partners for that matter, but if you talk about sex I think the awareness of stds will grow and hence the number of "victims" fall too. 

Did you know for example that the most common std is clamydia, and if not treated (there are really no symptoms) can lead to that women can´t get pregnant and men get a testicle inflammation. Sounds like fun? No eh...then I suggest that if you have more than one sex partner, use condom first of all or don´t have sex, but I don´t think you will let go of that. Also get yourself tested once in a while, you never know. Do it for your own sake. Not for your mother, your father, the Pope, or someone else, but for YOU. 

Well that´s today´s lesson folks, so lets put your hands together for a random applause to this Swedish mag, for all the fun reading! YEAAAAAAAAAAAY.